cheating/adultery how to move on
byscrapyscraparton 12 Feb, 2015 11:53
For 6 years that we are married 4 times he cheated me with other woman. This time it really hurt so much because when I caught him cheating on me by having a malicious messages/ conversations with a married woman whom I know.when I confronted him about this he told me that for him it was just a joke and he started to belittling me and insulting me and and accusing me that I was the one having an affair. Then he told me that if I don't trust him anymore then he would leave then I said he could go but his sister told us that the one suffering from all this are our 4 children. She said someone must stepdown. I called our church elder to give us some advice. He admitted his mistakes and promise that we will start all over again. Would it be against GOD and His teachings if I decided to divorce him?
bytroubled soulon 13 Feb, 2015 16:27
I am going through the same thing. If you scroll down through the post a few, mine is title "family first". The Bible states adultery is the only reason for divorce. I too am torn between what to do. It is "unfair" that our spouses go out and have a fun time so to speak and then we are the ones having to make the decision. We were not letting Christ live through us and she made bad choices. Now we are going to a CHRISTIAN councilor and praying more in a day than we didin a week. I am sorry you are going through this.