dont know what to do
byjellybeanon 05 Aug, 2014 20:38
Is it a sin to be having intercourse with my fiancé before we are married even know we have kids together
byolaon 06 Aug, 2014 18:01
u can correct your wrong by getting married since u already have kids.I wish u the mercy of God.
byplumbercrackon 08 Aug, 2014 17:04
Jellybean I'm pretty sure you already know the answer to that or you would not have asked. The Bible is full of lessons on sexual purity. If you are a follower confess and it will be erased. Jesus already paid for it. I suggest you get married quick before the great deceiver tempts both of you again.
byiwasbornon 09 Aug, 2014 04:16
Why r u ashing r u trying to b obedient to God? If u r congratulations That is the best thing a person can do. He "Jehovah God" will reward u with happiness and eternal live. Remember what God said to Isreal in Deuteronomy 4:1 - 2 “Now, O Israel, listen to the regulations and the judicial decisions that I am teaching you to observe, so that you may live and go in and take possession of the land that Jehovah, the God of your forefathers, is giving you. 2 You must not add to the word that I am commanding you, neither must you take away from it, so as to keep the commandments of Jehovah your God that I am commanding you."
byronet de honerableon 10 Aug, 2014 17:36
Best message concerning your need, go to Voice of God Recordings...look up the message named...Marriage and Divorce. Hope you will be as happy as I am. Changed my heart in 1985.
byericatee2on 10 Aug, 2014 17:55
What it appears that no one want to say directly is Yes it is wrong for the 2 of you to continue to have intercourse outside of marriage. God does not care what man says is right. He wrote the bible just as he wanted it to be and the path that he tells us to follow is laid out in the scriptures. adding to or taking away from this word is something that God will not tolerate. He created us and this world and does not need any of us to help him to interpret it for him. and since he deals with us directly what he gives us in his word for each of us is between Him and us. but the commandment, precepts, and concepts that he put in place from the beginning will never change. regardless to what we as humans choose to think or feel. and his word says in " 1st Corinthians 6:18- 20 18 Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body. 19What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? 20For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's. " and 1 Corinthians 7:8-9 8 I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, It is good for them if they abide even as I. 9But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn. and these are just a few email me at firstname.lastname@example.org or email@example.com and I will give you more scriptures to read on this subject.
by3r1sonon 17 Aug, 2014 10:45
God still loves you. Read Galatians 5:19-26. The first group, adultry, fornication, uncleanness, lewdness, are of "evil passion." Do you love your mate? Marriage is good.
byjellybeanon 18 Aug, 2014 19:10
Yes I love my mate with all my heart and yes I want marry him I just don't want to go to hell for having intercourse with him what do I need to do to get it right
by3r1sonon 26 Aug, 2014 21:25
Like others have said, "Get married!" GOD does forgive but you must change your ways. Sex before marriage is against Christ words. God bless you two.
byjellybeanon 27 Aug, 2014 20:23
byyorkshireon 30 Aug, 2014 20:40
Make up in your mind n heart that u won't do it im sure he loves u that's if he really loves u he will respect your decision and I guess he does that's why he ask u to marry him come together in prayer and allow the holy spirit of GOD to help u and sustain u do what ever it takes not to do it, it will make the honey moon more memorable spiritually n mentally .best wishes.
byjellybeanon 01 Oct, 2014 19:20
byFrankLordon 02 Oct, 2014 22:57
If you have done that with her, the acceptable manner is to get married to her. Never leave her. Because it is lawerful in the Lord for us to do so whenever we do that.
bykittyd1959on 05 Oct, 2014 05:09
God's Word says "do not fornicate", that's sex before marriage. So i would say yes is. Anything against God's Word is sin. Listen to God. God's Holy Spirit is your conscience. Listen to that & you'll know.