My husband wants to marry a second wife, how do I make a choice between his needs and my religion (Catholic)?
byHorebon 03 Apr, 2016 04:17
So sad to hear ! But pls show him the verse *[[Matthew 19:9]] KJV* And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery. Also show this verse 1 Corinthians 6:9,10 9 Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, 10 Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.
Gods word will speak ! We will pray !
byNeoon 09 Apr, 2016 06:15
Thank you so much for the words of comfort. I am continuing to pray for my marriage on daily basis.
byHorebon 11 Apr, 2016 17:48
Neo ! How is ur husband now ? Don't u spend intimate moments together? May God bless you !
byNeoon 25 Apr, 2016 16:35
Hi. I just found out that he has made the other woman pregnant. There are no words to describe the pain I am feeling right now. I need your prayers to ask God to heal my broken heart and to help my marriage through this trying time. I feel weak and alone😭
byHorebon 25 Apr, 2016 17:10
Neo, I feel too pained to hear. How u need comfort now ! I just want to be with u and pray along with u to our only Comforter, Lord Jesus Christ. He alone can solve this. Neo ddon't lose heart. Something God will do. Let us trust even thru this pain. I remember this verse *[[1Corinthians 10:13]] KJV* There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it. You are not alone dear Neo. God is with u even in this times of trouble. As a brother in Christ, I also encourage u . Take care and be bold ! I pray foru !
byAlmawrighton 29 Apr, 2016 21:14
Horeb gave you good advice, stay strong and be encouraged with the word, I know you are hurt more than words can say..I'm sorry that this happen to you.wish I can hold your hands. Just know that God is holding your hand and he will not leave you nor forsake you..sometimes things that make us weak can make you strong, this is your time to talk to god and be patient in his answer. .I don't know your husband like you but now I know he need you more than ever, if you still love your husband and you want it to work because you love God and him you can..pray on anything you do first and find out what your husband want. And keep others out, let it be you god and your husband even the lady that's having the baby until you and your husband come to god first..I will keep you in prayer, stay in the word..remember god forgive us so we can forgive to..
byHorebon 30 Apr, 2016 12:17
Amen to Alma's advice ! Continue in ur walk with Christ Neo !
God will never break ur relationship ! Pls spend more time with His word ! Have a blessed day !
byNeoon 07 May, 2016 07:36
Thank you all so much for the words of comfort and encouragement. I do believe that nothing is ever a random occurrence for God. There is a life lesson intended for me and my husband from this situation. I keep praying to God to give me the strength and wisdom I need to get through this period. Thank you all of you for your continuing prayers. I have started talking to the other woman in order to understand her views. She is surprisingly respectful and is willing to make the big family situation work. The one thing I also realized is that she really loves my husband. She says he makes her happy. It is a difficult situation but we are taking it a day at a time.
Before I found out about the whole thing me and my husband were trying for another child as we have a 6yrs old son. We have been trying for over 2 years and nothing has happened. He wants a big family and time is not on our side. I keep asking myself if this is Gods way of giving him his wish for a big family?
The one thing that is still clear is that I still love my husband and I still want to spend the rest of my life with him.
Please continue to help me pray...🙏🏾
byHorebon 07 May, 2016 17:42
Neo I am so amazed at ur submission to what is happening in ur family . It's all bcos of Jesus you are so understanding and loving U will be a blessed wife.
Let us continue to pray.
God will close all doors which are not according to His will and open His doors. Revelation 3:7 teachesvbthis truth.