I JUST FOUND OUT THAT MY GF CHEATED ON ME
bywelldey27on 28 Feb, 2016 16:00
Hi guys, i just want to hear your thoughts about what im going through right now. I just found out that my gf cheated on me. It happens last valentines day of 2015 but I just recently confirmed it this month so its 1 yr before i knew it. I confronted her, she told be that they never had a relationship with the guy, but i asked here if they kissed and she said yes. My world just collapsed that moment. What will I do, I really love here and she is my life. We will be 4 yrs this august. Just want to hear your thoughts and advice before I make a life changing. decision. Thanks and God Bless....
byDanny Chrison 29 Feb, 2016 17:59
Jst try n pray... i believe she might be meant for you
byCarl42on 02 Mar, 2016 13:58
Hello Brother, please do not think me unsympathetic, or judgemental but I cannot but infer from your comment that you are in an unmarried sexual relationship. If this is the case, perhaps your attention should be turned towards your adultery toward God, rather than any 'worldly' adultery on your girlfriends part. In other words, repent and get right with God. Either marry or stay chaste.
May Gods blessings, and mercy be upon you.
bystandingon 04 Mar, 2016 19:57
U should pray and talk to her.try to know why she did this bcz we wrestle not against blood and flesh
byAlmawrighton 15 Mar, 2016 00:49
My brother I don't know how old your are and that don't really matter, first you need to seek God read and study his word, as the man said we all fight against flesh and blood and it hard to understand but with prayer and reading the word you will do what's in your heart. If thus is your girlfriend it's not adultery it has to be your wife to use that word, convenient under god as man and wife is when it's adultery. .as your girlfriend and you guys been going together for 4 year you are still learning each other , and god do what your attention in doing the right thing as the man before me respond to you..God has to be in the center of your relationship in order for it to work and you can't play house and not put a cover of god word on it, you should be married and put god and her first, time going to come for ups and down but use God as your counselor. Now it time to talk to her and find out if this where she want to be if she said yes leave it behind pick up the cross and carry yourself and her to church and do it right, no one perfect and if it did or did not happen god for give us all find in your heart to do the same thing and carry your lady to god..God want you guys to do the right thing we all can start over with god. Repent for your past and hold gods hand. .and pray for the hurt you feel to go away and make you strong. .read 1 Peter 5: 6 to 9 , the devil is rell but god to the glory has all the power to keep the devil off you and your girlfriend. .God bless you and your girlfriend, stay pray up and let god in
byAlbert16ton 16 Mar, 2016 15:58
Hello brother, don't be like Sampson. Women are the weakest creature. Pray for forgiveness and tell God to send you an angel to show you everlasting love. And you might find a god fearing lady to marry not a girlfriend
byAlmawrighton 19 Mar, 2016 16:18
Lol omg Albert what words that came out your mom, it's not the women that's weak the not true, first if he don't talk to her and find our what really happen ..if he chose to be with her and do this with god in it who are you to say leave her alone. Everyone make a mistake and god is the judge not man. Yes I do agree that he should married the woman instead of girlfriend.but to sat that his girlfriend is no good is not for us to say because we don't know her or him..God for give us all , and he can for give her if he chose to.
byHorebon 29 Mar, 2016 14:13
Great words of wisdom from Alma ! Thank God for suchwomen of God who uunderstand !
Pls don't try to judge so quickly ! Ask wisdom from God and be patient ! Talk to each other sincerely with prayer . don't be harsh , but understand weaknesses! Remember u might have also sinned atleast in ur thoughts ! Forgive each other and do as God wants ! May God lead you in ur decisions !
byadelferon 04 Apr, 2016 03:36
Just forgive her not just once..stay strong for Got will not give you a trial bu which you can not endure