How do you know if the person you're with is the one you're supposed to spend the rest of your life? How do you know? Is it by the way they talk to you. The way they treat you. By how many times they tell you they love you. By how much time you spend together. Attending church together. How do you know?
byVijay Pushkinon 29 Apr, 2016 06:03
There won't be any unicorns at the edge of the rainbow nor butterflies flying inside your stomach.. There won't be any emotional signs to be accurate.. Choosing a perfect partner to marry is the second most important thing in anyone's life after borning again into the Kingdom of Elohim which the first most important thing.. So don't ever trust your emotions since it can easily fool you.. Think logically and use your brain * whether he/she will suit you or not.. * Whether you are attracted to their physical appearance or their inner personality including their character.. * Whether your Love is like God's Give way of Love or Like carnal Human's get way of Love.. Selfish love.. This is quite easy to find.. If you put away your own feeling and emotions to clearly see the other person's feelings and emotions.. You are showing Give way of Love (Selfless Love) - Comes only through Holy Spirit.. or if you have ego or selfish desire On the Other person.. Then you are showing get way of Love (Selfish Love)..
Although emotions obviously involve in selecting the right partner but it shouldn't be the only driving factors.. Since emotions are not stable.. Use Brain not heart..
Finally Not all so-called perfect partners are chosen one for you be Elohim.. So ask him.. He may talk to you through his Spirit or His Bible or ask for any signs..
prefer Elohim's decision to your decisions.. Because we may ask for only glitters but He's planning to give us Gold or Diamonds..
byVijay Pushkinon 29 Apr, 2016 06:06
To experience the marriage life to the fullest in the way howw Elohim meant it to be He must be working within both partners.. For this to be possible Both must be converts and Born again..
Though casual dating can be done with non converts.. But when it gets serious baptism should be must..