Hello, I'm lost and at need of help. So recently I have been betrayed by someone very close to me. I am 16 and was very close to my sisters husband. And ever since I was 2 he has been in my life he became like a brother to me until recently... He had started gettin to "nice" and I told him back off and stay away from me and he never listened. Then a few days ago he passed the line he touched me and after everything happened I told my sister, dad and mom my sister thinks I'm lying and don't have nothing to do with me anymore and my parents are taking care of everything but I'm just lost and needing some guidance cause I don't know anyone my age who knows what I'm going through and I am bottling all this up and feel like I can't talk to no one anymore.. Can I have some advice.?
byHowardon 30 Sep, 2015 02:19
What do u mean your parents are taking care of everything? U must confide in your father,he must be the one to confront this man.Express your love to your sister (text her maybe) she knows u r telling the truth be can't accept it because of the (blind)love for her partner.Know u r not alone,the holy spirit is with u and knows your worries.Last,Ask your mother for advice,and she must talk to your sister about this man.
byKenzieon 30 Sep, 2015 17:48
What I meant by my parents are taking care of stuff was they are trying to talk to my sister help our relationship and taking care of what my brother n law done... It's just a lot to take in because I love my sister and i don't want our relationship to suffer because of someone's stupidness... Theres been times when all I did was cry cause My sister won't talk to me...I've talked to my mom and prayed and still I feel alone. But thank you for the advice.
byrayteton 30 Sep, 2015 22:08
What is important is you do what God would approve of, then you can count of the scripture that says ''all things work together for the good of those who love the Lord''. Just keep praying and trusting God and He store the broken relationship. But did you give in to the desires of this cheat? Is that what you told your sister?
byKenzieon 01 Oct, 2015 18:56
I didn't give into anything... He's a lot older than me and was in the military so my strength compared to his was nothing... I told him to stop and I tried to fight him and anything I tried wouldn't stop him. I told my sister that I tried to fight him off and told him to stop but she looked at me and said your lying... And that hurt more than anything in the world
byGodschild1on 05 Oct, 2015 18:28
My prayers go out to you. Trust GOD that he will mend the relationship between you and your sister. I believe there's a bigger issue at hand, your safety. I would report my bro in law to the local authorities. No one should ever be abused or touched inappropriately. Who's to say that you were the first person to be harmed by him. As far as the family, trust that GOD will take care of that.
byshivam chaurasiaon 20 Oct, 2015 06:36
Hey, dear. In my openion u shouldn't talk to him ever. And u have to think he is ur sister's husband and any of ur action will destroy there relation and you hv to believe on this almighty Lord. One day he will be punished. U have to pray for ur self dear. And think about salvation which can be got in this time becoz Jesus Christ came on this Earth.
byGigispeaon 21 Oct, 2015 00:11
The man is a very bad man. I think you should have reported him to your sister or parents when he started showing interest in you. Anyway the worse has already happened. I know the pain you're going thru. The Bible tells us to carry everything to God in prayer. God understands what u going thru too. Don't worry if your sister is not talking to you bcos of this. Ask God to help you to forgive your sister and her husband. As you gradually learn how to forgive them, you'll also be able to overcome this pain. God will also use you as a blessing to your family. God bless you!
byPrincessRebeccahon 21 Oct, 2015 20:38
How are your parents taking care of it? Are you wanting to talk to someone your age who has gone through this? Ask God for help. He is there. Give this over to Him. Forgive the man who did this. God will fight for you. Pray for the man.