Hey! I have a boyfriend who is not a christian and basically we have different values , personally I do not believe in sex before marriage but he keeps sending signals .I do not know what to do , I was ready to walk out of the relationship but one day as I was praying i had a deep need to pray for him as well and just as a finished praying for him I felt a relief in my spirit as though I was doing something right...I have never converted someone to Christianity cause I feel I am not persuasive enough.What do I do please help, do I stay or walk away
byEmmanuelon 24 Aug, 2015 03:43
Stay with him nd win his soul to christ so you can win a crown in heaven
byholding_onon 24 Aug, 2015 08:02
Who do you value the most in your life? One other thing, sex does not make a relationship. I'm just making a comment that I know to well.
byholding_onon 24 Aug, 2015 08:07
Givr the Lord a real chance to show you how much you are loved. This man should love you and respect your Christian life. Once you give him sex the relationship will change, not always for the better.
bysapphireon 25 Aug, 2015 00:07
just to add to what ‘holding’ said, ask Jesus to help u stay true to your christian values, uphold them. u can tell your boyfriend about the gospel and love of Jesus but remember u of yourself CANNOT convert, persuade or make anyone become a christian. that is the work of the Holy Spirit. the Holy Spirit convicts and persuade a person to seek God. u plant the seed by tell your boyfriend about Jesus, then the Holy Spirit will do the rest providing that your boyfriend make himself available and receptive to Jesus.
byGideonon 05 Sep, 2015 01:03
Sister, in your explanation you mentioned that you and your boy friend have different values. If at the beginning God is revealing to you what may likely be a big problem in your marrital life, you need to be sensitive. If your boy firend is not a christain and does not respect your interest and you also do not respect his, I suspect there is a conflict. Please note that allowing him to have sex with you does not make him christian. Marrying him is not his ticket to heaven but committing his heart to Jesus. God bless you.
byGigispeaon 21 Oct, 2015 07:07
1 Cor 6:18: Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but He that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body. The Bible didn't tell us to pamper or entertain fornication. It tells us to flee. If your right hand is worrying you, cut it off. Pls it is better to go to heaven with one hand than to go to hell with both hands. This boy will force you to fornication but won't marry you. Love is patient and enduring. If he really loves you, he'll be patient and endure.
byPrincessRebeccahon 21 Oct, 2015 20:29
We're God's hands, feet & mouth. God does the rest. Ask God & in His timing will answer but whatever it's you will know it's Him because of inner witness. God tells us to ask. Proverbs 3: 5&6.
bybennetton 22 Oct, 2015 00:44
My sister hear my story! Am married now to my lovly wife, when my relationship with my wife started I was not a born again or received christ into my life. I always want to have sex with my wife then; I plan a lot to make my wife fall to it but my wife was a devoted born again. She told me that she can not sleep with me just cuz I want marry her. One day( easter monday few days before our native wedding) I called her to meet me in a hotel; she came nd I try to force her to sex but she refuse and throw the enagement ring to my face nd said never. After she left I hated my self for that I did, the holy spirit started his work on my life nd I accepted Jesus into my life nd became holy without her preaching to me but I know she has been praying to God for my salvation. After my native wedding we agree not to live togather or even having sex till after our church wedding. Church wedding has past, horny moon is over and am four months happily married also my wife is three months pregnant. To God be the Glory am in good relationship with God. So my sister all you need is to stay, protect ur value, preach to him sometimes not always cuz if u do it always he find u boring above all pray to God. If he is the right man for you he will repent