i cant seem to trust my husband anymore
byblessedmamaon 22 May, 2015 01:17
as much as i love my husband he has been so terrible to me and in front of our 1 year old daughter. he is mentally and physically abusive and occationally he likes to leave and try to leave with our daughter and it scares me that he will one day. we have only been married for almost 3 years in sep and it feels like everthing has changed. one moment hes a sweet loving kind generous over the top romantic, next were married and now he dosent know how to love or open a door and be the man i married. ll he does is lie and cheat and yell and put me down and belittle me as if i was nothing. i gave him so many chances and hes says hes going to change and when were living together again its the same thing all over again. all his words have hurt me and made me feel worthless and took away my faith in god ... little by little i could feel god slip out of my life just trying to please my husband and it was never enough never good enough to love to hold to say i love you too. its only been 1 years and now he wants us back because being single was no fun . what do i do? all we do if fight and argue every time were together and i cant take it anymore . i have a lil girl to protect and im afraid of him hurting her mentally and spirtually..... please i need help
bysapphireon 26 May, 2015 11:47
first, you need to take care of mental well-being. Get yourself together.If you don't no one else will do that for you.Talk with God, pure your heart out to Him, He will help you get through your situstion.
byjj.masongon 26 May, 2015 18:49
First, you pray together every night and day as a family, because a family that prays together stays together. And if you have time, you yourself pray every afternoon for your family and seek faith. I know that Satan is in control of your family, he's trying to break God's definition of marriage. So, kick Satan out by the help of God our father. God bless you and your family!
byLetHisLightShineon 14 Jun, 2015 09:52
You arnt worthless your a woman of God and a loving mother! God loves you! Try to seek his love because he can love you more and better than anyone else can.. always love God more than anyone! or anything else! God bless you!
bylang19611on 16 Jun, 2015 16:56
I'm concerned about the physical abuse and mental abuse. This has to be addressed there is no were in scripture that you have to put up with physical abuse. I will be praying for your protection . The Lord can restore any marriage for his children. One thing that has to be asked is your husband saved . Seek help in a bible preaching church, maybe somebody on this forum can direct you.
bymenroseon 24 Jun, 2015 18:38
God is power full and he sayed if we belive we can pray and move mountains, and the devil always strike were there is beauty of god so please only our prayers can make a change for the first step. Remain strong and talk to our father to help.
byphildion 03 Jul, 2015 09:21
Is a very sad story and as you mentioned both of you have not even stayed for that long and issues are coming.. Well my advise is that this is the time you need to come closer to God because with him all things are possible and he is able to turn and change every situation.. So please sister commit every thing to prayers OK...
byJanon 04 Jul, 2015 03:59
I have the same problem with my husband but to a lesser degree, partly because i have dealt with him and accepted the reality of my situation. The Lord gave me these verses years ago when i was reeling in pain from something he had said to me and i was crying asking God why? - this is what He showed me from His word: Proverbs 26:24-26. He who hates, disguises it with his lips,and lays up deceit within himself; v25. When he speaks kindly, do not believe him, for there are seven abominations in his heart. v.26Though his hatred is covered by deceit , His wickedness will be revealed before the assembly. You can't make someone love you but you can make them respect you. I am focusing on my life, working towards fulfilling my purposes and dreams, i am basically happy, life is challenging, you need God no matter where you are living it from. Take care. If you want to chat i use facebook messenger, i have access to other methods such as Google+ chat, skype etc i've just never/rarely used them. God bless you. Jan